Why must women pay special attention to their clothing when men are also told to lower their gaze?
The Holy Qur’an first tells men to lower their gaze, and only then addresses women. Both carry responsibility, and a woman’s modest dress is her share in keeping society calm and pure.
The question assumes that Islam places the burden mainly on women. The Holy Qur’an does the opposite. The first verse above is addressed to men. They are to lower their gaze and restrain themselves. Only in the next verse are women addressed. The responsibility therefore lies with men first.
Even so, it would be unrealistic to rely on the pure hearts of men alone. It is part of human nature that women are attractive and draw attention. When a woman deliberately displays her charms, she makes things harder for men and unsettles society. A man who then gives in is still at fault. But whoever deliberately creates the temptation also bears part of the responsibility.
That is why Islam asks women to dress decently, not to display their charms, and to avoid striking make-up in public. This is neither a punishment nor a sign of distrust. It is a contribution to a society in which men and women can meet each other calmly and with respect.
Islam does not require a face veil, and no one may force a woman into a particular form of covering. What matters is the spirit behind it. A woman who dresses modestly and does not seek attention fulfils the commandment. Women who freely choose to do more in a permissive environment deserve respect. They act like a brake that keeps society from sliding further and further into having no limits at all.